Clothing--Seductive Vs. Conservative

I was shopping in the mall the other day with my 11 year old daughter and suprisingly enough (ha..ha..)there was another girl about her age wearing close to nothing!  I usually in this day and age hardly even notice that some girl is walking by us half naked but this girl was wearing shorts that were not much bigger than the width of a band-aid and a shirt that came up so high that it barely covered her chest!  She was also using crutches because she had a broken leg. She was getting quite alot of stares.  I couldn't believe that her mother would let her leave the house looking like that.  I told my daughter, "You will never be able to wear an outfit like that!"  She laughed.  Luckily, my daughter is not only beautiful, but she is exceptionally bright and athletic and would never have to be half naked to finally get noticed!

To my suprise a man over heard me speaking of this scantily clothed girl and  agreed with me!  He said "I would never let my daughter leave the house wearing that!  I am so proud of my daughter, she is attending Boston University and doing well!" It was so refreshing to hear a man was offended to see a girl half naked in a mall.  It is so great to see that there is still men out there that agree that women should respect themselves more than that, and keep their clothes on!

I have to admit that I am liberated, I am not a women who wears turtle necks and long sweat pants to hide myself.  I like to dress up in fashionable clothes and look attractive and feminine but with class and tact.  I love clothes, jewelry, high heels, makeup and all that girly stuff.  I usually have to give my daughter fashion advice because I know the lastest styles better than her. She always asks me how I am so good at putting fashions together and making everything flow together so nicely. I want her to be in style, and fit in, but I still refuse to let her wear some of the clothes that the girls wear that are quite revealing and seem too mature and sexy for an 11year old girl.  I want her to always dress with class and there is no need to display yourself like a piece of meat.

Truly sexy and beautiful women can get away with wearing an ordinary pair of jeans and a sweater and their sex appeal can still shine through.  So to all the single women out there, keep your clothes on, it might be harder to get the attention that your longing for, but when you do you might find that "diamond in the rough" a nice guy that loves your soul.

Steph

last quote: Nickelback song